Stupidity over LOVE♥

Stupidity merely indicates lack of intelligence and reason or dullness of sensation.

But in the dictionary of love, how is this really defined?

Some believe that there is only two choices- love all the way or never love at all. But on the process of engrossing yourself into the idea of infinite love, isn’t it too pathetic to put all your love if you are the sole combatant holding on?

In the beginning, both people in a relationship are at their finest qualities. Both are too cautious of wearing off their real behavior, so it is difficult to tell who gives more or less. In the first place, it is not even right to calculate because there is no numerical value that can ever quantify love.

But in the long run, one has to be numb of what the other one can cause due to shrinking intimacy and affection.

Indeed too much love can kill someone, it is also true that love can conquer all odds yet love is never blind. It just ignores what it sees. Worse, the person showered with this kind of love tolerates due to selfish benefits.

Stupid love tries to convince a person that he/she is loved regardless of the instances that hurts and makes him/her feel unworthy to be cherished. Instances such as the person you love seem uninterested of your worries, thoughts and dreams, when that person can be so controlling and abusive but doesn’t give you enough right to demand on him, and doesn’t put much effort to work for your relationship’s happiness.

There are times that people who undoubtedly care for you give some warnings but then you- a person clouded with intense emotions, try to tell them that they are being mean and judgmental. You tend to disregard his negative reputation because you are so into the thought of “love me for what I am”. Thus, although you are aware that your loved one has been flirting here and there, you drown yourself into the reason that he is at a halt of enjoying himself.

This how stupidity enters the nerves of a person stuck in love, you try to understand everything although those are really hard and unjust to be understood…